Handle: LostLovers
Age: 39-44
Location: Boston (Dorchester)

"We started to place ads looking for men on the classififeds site after I had a vivid sex dream about my wife.

My wife was in bed at our place with another man. He was asking her to have sex with him but she kept saying no. The man was objectively very attractive and muscular.

I was there just listening to the conversation and told the guy, 'Look she said she doesn't want to, so you should stop asking.' I then went into the other room and came back to the bedroom and they were both gone.

I went into the ensuite bathroom and they were in the shower together. My wife was bent over facing away from me as the guy was having sex with her.

She obviously wanted to have sex with him despite what she was saying earlier. She was enjoying herself and just eventually looked back at me as she was moaning. I woke up after that.

In the morning I briefly told her and acted like I didn't enjoy the dream. She jokingly said after telling her she was having sex and was bent over, 'Did I look hot?' I surprisingly said yes.

I guess my unconscious knew deep down she wanted it and so did I, hence how we got started. Hope to meet someone who likes this sort of thing."